Our issues are just that, “our issues…”
Burdening someone with our problems is a choice we all have to endure and will usually choose not to do so!
Most of the time, we mask our issues or dissociate, but rarely deal with them, unless we’re forced. Others offer or even try to force the help on us, because they see/know we can’t get whatever it is under control by ourselves. But what do we usually do? Continue to reiterate the “fact” that we’re “cool”, “ok” or my personal favorite, “FINE”:
F***ed up
Inscure
Neurotic
Emotional
Doesn’t matter who we are, there is always someone willing to help us through our issues, but cannot unless we accept and allow them to do so. There are still individuals that function from integrity and from their hearts. Many do not, which justifies the solidarity most of us have and our lack of trust. But be observant… Our rewards come from how we choose to carry ourselves and how we perform in our daily lives.
Everyone is not for us, but we tend to push those away that are. By the time we realize, “hell, they were right all along”, it’s too late… Companionship is important, whether it’s a partner/spouse or just a damn good friend. None of us were meant to walk this earth alone and our children weren’t meant to be raised by one parent. It’s usually going to be that “team effort” that gets us through life, not self…
Love those that show you they love you. Words mean nothing without action.
Jax Is Not Surviving 